Hey there!
Today's topic is quite simple yeah?
It's pretty hard to express it correctly though..
I'm sure there is one period of time,
Where infatuation is much more prominent.
I try to understand it myself.
Because I'm nothing but a teenage girl.
Infatuation..
According to an online dictionary
Infatuation is defined as "A foolish, unreasoning, or extravagant passion or attraction" or
"An object of extravagant, short-lived passion."
For me, it's pretty true.. I gotta admit that.
The definition definitely define me.. (see what I did there?lol)
I used to have a crush on this guy and it's pretty crazy..
Thinking back, I would love to punch myself for that.
Well, there is another fact that I agree to..
I read this somewhere but I forgotten.. (Twitter maybe)
It says that a crush will only last four months,
And hell yeah.. the so call crush lasted four months! (seriously four months when I counted back)
It is the most embarrassing thing I did so far.. (I think there is more but..)
Now, he is still tries to contact me.. (through FB and stuff)
And now I felt he is stalker like..
It's really scary!!
So I promised myself never again..
NEVER FREAKING AGAIN! WILL I DO THIS CRAP.
The most short-lived passion would be...
When you saw someone hot..
While getting the groceries or taking a walk..
One part of you was like...
Girls: "OMG! He's so hot! I'm gonna marry him!"
Guys: "Dat ass" (just kidding guys ^^)
And then you woke up from that lil fantasy,
He/she is gone..
So there goes..
Infatuation..
It doesn't help too..
When all the "in" song is about love,
Heartbreak, crushes, boyfriends, girlfriends etc etc..
Well, that is the only song we can relate too anyways..
On the other side,
I remember once that,
A guy "kinda" propose for me to be his girlfriend.. (coz he didn't directly ask..)
So, I "kinda" rejected him.. (not directly rejected him..)
It's not because I don't like him,
It is because we just knew each other..
It is also because he lives far away from me..
And we are still young and foolish..
I don't wanna break his heart and mine too..
The timing is so not right..
I did tried to message him but..
No replies.. oh well :(
Anyways, I wish him all the best in his life!
The future is not our's to see..
Whatever will be, will be..
Back to the topic,
I believe that there is two types of infatuation,
The good and the bad..
It is all up to the person..
You may have crushes on..
A star or your bestfriend?
Bestfriend would be a little bit awkward..
It is awesome if the both of you are bestfriend and lovers and then got married..
But, if it doesn't turn out well.. AWKWARDDDDDD....
I don't know.. because I haven't had any experiences like that.
It is just what I thought I would be experiencing if it was me..
Then again, if the person if "reachable",
Go get him/her already!
But, well, don't break his/her heart if you know you are not ready yet..
There is also a dangerous type of infatuation.
But that would be in another part because I need to research more on that.
And as usual, my elaboration would be more than you can handle.
I'll just break it into two parts.
See you in the next post real soon!
Reference(s)
http://www.thefreedictionary.com/infatuation
My Thoughts On... Social Networking Sites
Hey readers!
I'm back!
Today's topic is a little bit vague but I'll just get to the point..
And by the way, this topic is actually from my exam..
And I got C for that subject *horrified*
So, social networking sites..
What is the first thing that pops into your mind?
Let me guess.. Facebook..
Ok, I know, I know.. I'm lame..
Everyone can guess that...
Or maybe Twitter..
Or Tumblr..
Or..whatever social network site you're using..
PROS
Well, for the pros..
I'm not really sure about that..
For me, Facebook really helps me find my friends..
Old classmates and stuff...
Here's a lil story about me and Facebook..
So, I thought I was addicted to Facebook..
I decided to not go on Facebook for 3 days..
I almost succeed but the reason I failed is...
All the announcement for classes and stuff for my school,
Is posted in a group in Facebook..
If I don't check it..
I'll probably be the only person in class,
Where the class is cancelled..
I do have a Twitter account where I post random stuff..
It helps me express something in 140 or less words..
And I update it a few..ok, a lot of times on a daily basis..
CONS
First and foremost!!!!!
Internet crimes..
Holy crap, it is BEYOND creepy!
Although I have never experience it before, (don't come and con me now..)
I don't know how to say this but I "feel" it..
It's around us.. the evil aura..
It just creeps me out ok?
Here's another story..
I used to have this Yahoo account..
I stop checking for the mails for half a year or so..
When I finally check it.. guess what I read..
"I am a businessman and I'm having trouble with the transaction at the bank..."
"Would you help me by giving your account number so I can deposit it into your..."
(Like or retweet if you have experience like this before lol)
I was staring at the mail and go all "hell no"...
I was 12 or 13 at that time.. like I have a bank account..
Joke's on you bruh!
Another story I wanted to share is..
I have a close friend and she's a FB addict..
24/7 on FB and barely get out from the house because there's no wifi connection outside..
To make her come out more often..
Her dad even subscribe to the data plan..
Just for her to update her status or check-ins..
CONCLUSION
Bear in mind that I'm not criticizing anyone or anything..
It's alright to be connected..
Nowadays, if you do not own a FB account,
You are a frog in the well or "katak dibawah tempurung"..
Make sure to not be addicted like a friend of mine..
She is in a state than even I am afraid of!
I just don't understand why?
Maybe I'm not popular enough like her..
I used to have 2 accounts..
One is for my real friends and family,
Another one is for my new friends..
Here's the last story, I promise..
Back in 197... just kidding :D
Back in 2008 when that friend of mine is still young and naive,
She saw me approving random people on FB..(this is the "for the new friends" account)
And she asked me "Why you approve this person? You know him/her?"
I was like "Haha, no."
And that friend was like "Oh, how could you do that. Later the person will kidnap you..
So, in a few years time, I was the one telling her that..
She scoffed at me.. Oh well..
Am I wrong about all this?
What I understand all this year I'm living is that..
If there is something good, THERE WILL BE SOMETHING BAD!
If parents is reading this,
Please, please, PLEASE!
Supervise your kids!
The web is the best place to learn..
But it is also the most dangerous place to venture to..
If you are a kid or teen reading this,
PLEASE BE VERY VERY CAREFUL!
This is not a joke..
And I'm not an unmarried 40 something menopausal lady with hundreds of cats (no offence if you are..)
I am a teenager just like you!
I understand how it is like to be in this web-nation..
Now, I will go tweet something LOL
Have a nice day peeps!
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Thanks for reading! :)
PS: I'm still learning how to use Tumblr though :/
PS #2: "katak dibawah tempurung" direct translation is frog under the coconut shell..
PS #3: Sorry if I have offended any reader..I'm just sharing
My Thoughts On... Embarrassing Moment!
Hello people!
It's me again..
Well, who else if it's not me? Lol
How are you people faring?
Kays, let's get to business..
So, the title speaks for itself, as always,
Who here does not have any embarrassing moment..everrrr..
Yes? No?
Based on the statistic and logic..
Everyone does have that one embarrassing moment ever!
For me, I have tons of it!!
Well, everything I did is embarrassing..
Here, is one example..I hope you can relate..
Crossing a very busy road..
Everyone was looking at me like I'm sort of an alien..
That's their problem, but I hated that look.
Another one happens recently..
Our college has this tiny ass elevator,
And everyone could not fit in it..
So I was gonna go in but realize I can't fit..
Which is embarrassing for me..
Plus, my friend keep saying "Come in! Come in!"..
I was like "No, it wouldn't fit plus it's gonna be overweight.."
I said that in my brain ofcourse..
Then my bag got stuck by the door..
Ugh.. I can totally die!
Yet, I'm still alive!
The number 1 most embarrassing moment that ever happens to me would be...
I turned red when embarrassed.. like seriously red!
That is considered embarrassing obviously!
Now we come down to the conclusion..
I'm still alive, and you who have been through embarrassment,
Is alive and reading this too!
Life goes on!
Although you might get teased alot...
But seriously, let them be..
People teased you because they are bored..
Don't worry about it..
When they started to have assignment/homeworks/works..
Not bored anymore!
Someday, you will get to share this embarrassing moment with someone special..
Someone who will reply...
"OMG, that happens to you too? I thought I was the only one!"
"Special" can be your soon-to-be bf/gf or bf/gf (best friend/ good friend).
My Thoughts on.....PRAYERS
Yes...prayers...
Well, who else if it's not me? Lol
How are you people faring?
Kays, let's get to business..
So, the title speaks for itself, as always,
Who here does not have any embarrassing moment..everrrr..
Yes? No?
Based on the statistic and logic..
Everyone does have that one embarrassing moment ever!
For me, I have tons of it!!
Well, everything I did is embarrassing..
Here, is one example..I hope you can relate..
Crossing a very busy road..
Everyone was looking at me like I'm sort of an alien..
That's their problem, but I hated that look.
Another one happens recently..
Our college has this tiny ass elevator,
And everyone could not fit in it..
So I was gonna go in but realize I can't fit..
Which is embarrassing for me..
Plus, my friend keep saying "Come in! Come in!"..
I was like "No, it wouldn't fit plus it's gonna be overweight.."
I said that in my brain ofcourse..
Then my bag got stuck by the door..
Ugh.. I can totally die!
Yet, I'm still alive!
The number 1 most embarrassing moment that ever happens to me would be...
I turned red when embarrassed.. like seriously red!
That is considered embarrassing obviously!
Now we come down to the conclusion..
I'm still alive, and you who have been through embarrassment,
Is alive and reading this too!
Life goes on!
Although you might get teased alot...
But seriously, let them be..
People teased you because they are bored..
Don't worry about it..
When they started to have assignment/homeworks/works..
Not bored anymore!
Someday, you will get to share this embarrassing moment with someone special..
Someone who will reply...
"OMG, that happens to you too? I thought I was the only one!"
"Special" can be your soon-to-be bf/gf or bf/gf (best friend/ good friend).
My Thoughts on.....PRAYERS
Yes...prayers...
Back to last night aka this morning,
I'm on the phone with a friend of mine,
Talking about religion things..
We talked about the end of the world,
And then, creepy thing happen..
His phone keeps force closing..
And then when he called again,
His voice sounded like those demonic voice..
SERIOUSLY SCARED THE CRAP OUTTA ME!
We decided to shut up and talk about other things...
Back to my thoughts..
If you know me, you would see that I hardly involve myself in religious stuff..
But, don't judge too early coz I do have a religion..
So, my friend asked me, do you pray?
I said yes..he asked for what?
For straight A's in exam (the last time I remember I prayed so hard is during my SPM)
But, I added that, I worked hard myself coz seriously, the A's won't come to you by just praying..
Next, he said, then why do you give credit to God when it's your own hardwork?
I explained to him....and to you, reader why...
Imagine you are a great swimmer..like Michael Phelps maybe?
And you are in a swimming pool...
But you decided to use a float or buoy or whatever you called that thing that keeps you afloat..
For me, my prayers is like the float..
I am capable of swimming to the other end of the pool..
But, I wanted the float to be with me, just in case..
It gives me one kind of security.. feeling safe..
That is my thought on it..
I don't know about you but for me,
This is my thought..
It doesn't really matter which religion you are in..
The important thing is that you have a brain to think,
And everything will be fine for you..
Sometimes, it is good to think deeply..
It is for you to know that,
You are still a human being..
The higher power gave you the ability to think..
So...why not?